Today’s post is a little different than my typical post; it’s dedicated to a sweet little girl named Ella Bea. I write about two dear friends of mine that had to go through something no one should have to go through. Let me start from the beginning…
Three years ago I was introduced to a new co-worker. This guy wasn’t just a co-worker; he was my cube mate, he sat right in front of me, maybe 12 inches away. For those of you that work in corporate America, you know what I am talking about. Cube farms, yep, cube farms. I was told this new guy’s name was Corey McKenzie and I was asked “to help him out, show him the ropes.” In my mind I was thinking “Great, put the new guy next to me, just what I need. Keep in mind that I am going to have to sit next to this Corey guy, for eight hours a day. All he is going to want to talk about is football, baseball and hockey. It’s going to be like sitting next to my husband for the WHOLE day!! Fun, not!!” And, I was right!
As I got to know Corey, I also got to know his sweet wife Mandy. Only to find out they live about a mile away from my husband and I. We started to hang out; we played on a non-winning volleyball team together. We grabbed drinks together, went out to dinner and just hung out. My husband and Corey got along great and Mandy and I enjoy hanging out!
Corey and Mandy were there for Tim and I when we got married, they were there for us for birthdays and for the big one, the birth of our son Andy. So when they told us on that hot day last July that they were going to have a baby too, we couldn’t have been more excited!! Andy is going to have a play mate and hopefully, if it’s a girl, it would be his wife someday. I know, but it was fun to talk about.
It was fun to watch Corey and Mandy go through everything we went through because we knew that this was just the beginning. We know how great it would be for them to watch their little one grow up and hopefully marry our son! Then everything stopped…
Tim and I met Corey and Mandy for dinner on Saturday, February 5th. Mandy was 9 months pregnant. She looked great she said the baby girl (YES) she was carrying was moving around like crazy! When we left I remember hugging her and saying “I just have a feeling, next time I see you, you will be a Mom!”
Speed up a couple days. I am at work getting my day started and I get a text from Mandy. I remember thinking this is it!! I am going to the hospital tonight to meet this little girl!! Then I read the text. “We woke up this morning to find that it was not a dream… this morning our sweet baby girl… Ella Bea McKenzie was born at 12:15am. She weighed 6lbs and 14oz and was perfect. God had other plans for our sweet baby and took her too soon; we don’t have all the answers yet as to why or how. We appreciate all our family and friends and hope everyone can say a prayer for little Ella that she makes it home to our Lord safely. Love you all: Corey and Mandy” It hit me like a ton of bricks! This is NOT what was supposed to happen! How did this happen?
As a friend I did not know what to do. My heart ached terribly; I can’t imagine what they were going through. I remember watching the two of them and thinking how strong they are.
I can only imagine what they have gone through over the last few months. They have two charities they are supporting that have helped them get through this. Faith’s Lodge is a place that families that have lost children can go to help then grieve. It is located in WI and was hit very hard in a storm that blew through earlier this summer. They are also supporting the Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep organization that provided Corey and Mandy with the only physical memories of sweet Elli that they will ever have.
From the bottom of my heart, I ask you to please visit Ella’s gift. Make a donation if you can. They are hosting a benefit this weekend; I know its late notice. But if you can donate something for their silent auction, please contact them ASAP.
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Always in our hearts sweet Ella!